Saturday, December 22, 2012

Who's that someone?

I was there.

Hiding from reality. A reality that hit me real hard, real bad. As if I've been slapped, punched, kicked and bullied in front of a crowd but no one came towards me. No one trying to make a move. No one showing themselves up.  As pathetic as it was, I saw thousands of stares but not even a pair of helping hands.

I was there.
Still right there, helpless. Torn.

And suddenly, out of nowhere...

In a very low, soft voice.
Someone whispered to me,

"Jangan jatuh."

"Jangan jatuh."

"Jangan jatuh."

And then, I realised that, that someone was me.

Friday, November 30, 2012

Re-fuel

It's Fridayyy !

Again.

Means, another week wasted, *pufff* just like that. It weird how I have no mood at all to study though before the semester break started, I had, well solemnly said that I'm going to study everyday for the whole semester break. I guess, I broke too much promises that I made to myself, didn't I? 

Hmmm. So, December is back. The last month of 2012. How shocking is that?!

2013 is coming. In shaa Allah.
And looking back to what I am right now, at the edge of 2012 and who I was back at the early of the year of 2012, there's a mix feeling filling me up. Well. Maybe I am pretty satisfy and happy as what I'm progressing and becoming in, or maybe I'm longing for more or something more superb, more to things like 'woahhhh wow wow', I might say. Like being a superwoman or something. Haha.

Well.

Yknow, that feeling. When you know you are running out of time. Less time you have than you have ever thought. Or even when something is running towards you, trying to catch you up, and you still at that position. Numb. Effortless. or maybe lost. In your own world that you have created, with some walls and shields between you and the outside world. Ahhh crap. Whatever. Hmmm, I just feel pretty useless lately. 

I waste too much time. 
And I regret.

And I keep on doing it again.
And I regret again.

Please.
Save me. From all these regrets.

Monday, November 26, 2012

Oh I'm in love !

Uuuulalaaaaa my very first red velvet cake !
Couldnt believe on how much I love baking. ;)

Taraaaaa ! ( Well, of course I google-d to look out for the recipe )





Tuesday, November 20, 2012

#Pray4Gaza


 

Because I was once, an ignorant.
And I don't wanna be that person anymore.

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Of GraciousHim and LazyMe


Allah had sent upon me THREE dreams of A-level exams in A WEEK. On how I didnt really prepared for the exams and how I came late to the exam room, TWICE ! And also how I became so blank and blur till I forgot to bring my stationary ! 

He wanted me to study and really get prepared for my examination. He wanted me to really struggle and strive for it. 

And look at me, still in my own lazy world. 

Nak pass ke tak woiiiii ?
Tiga mimpi dah cukup okay, Nadiahbs. 

Get your lazy ass off the laptop and start studying and please, focus. 
Please.


Saturday, November 17, 2012

Luckily. I haven't burnt the kitchen. Yet. Hahaha

Semester break started and since I got plenty of free time to be spend, I chose to learn to cook and bake ! Yeeehaaaa. Well, I'm not really a good cook, and this is my first time I'm being serious in learning how to cook, I guess it just the right time to know ( at least, couple of recipes ) how to fill up my tummy with my own cook. So, here's some pictures of what I've learnt so far. Thanks to the internet, I managed to google-d lots of good recipes. Heeeee ;)

Pardon the look of the food. It taste better than it looked. Hahahaha *perasan*


Oreo cheesecake. 
Glad that Iqa and Dina loved it. Well, I love it too, since cheesecake is my fave !

 
Puding Karamel.
Bahahahhaha. This one really look uglayyy. I guess, I'm not really good in making my food looks attractive for people to eat, isn't it. 

Stuffed tomatoes, with mozarella cheese.
Just made this one for lunch today ! Cheese cheese cheese and more cheese. 


Well, basically I love to cook anything related to cheese, because I'm just simply a cheese-freak, I guess. lololol. Will try to learn more recipes ! And hopefully, my food look and taste better next time. ;) 


xoxo, 
Chef Nadiahbs.
Hahahaha

Friday, November 16, 2012

3, 2, 1 ! Goodbye and Hello !

Assalamualaikum.

I hope it is still not too late to wish Salam Maal Hijrah to all Muslim out there. Indeed, time flies so fast. It's 1434 H already. A new year means, another year of struggling and another chance given for us to become a better person, a better Muslim. :)

Yesterday is history.
Today is presence.
And tomorrow is future.

Lets make yesterday a day to remember, treasure all the sweet memories and learn all the bad things and mistakes that we've done. It is okay to turn back, to stop by and to look upon what we have done in the past because as what quoted "Those who do not learn from the past, are doomed to repeat it". Yes, so sometimes it's better to recall them cause it could make us feel better, at least. Because make us realise that, we are still living in this world, are still given a chance to make things better and one thing for sure, will open our eyes that we are continuously changing, to the better or to the worst, it depends on us, on how to make it happened. Everybody changed. I also did changed, I guess. I was the one, who always afraid of changes. I never like the idea of having to change, having to adapt to a new surrounding, having to turn a new leaf and forget the old wrinkle ones. I hated those so much. But that was before. As I grew up, I know, sometimes something won't stick as how we wanted it to be, won't always stay the same and will gradually and eventually change. Well its' either getting worn out of overused or rusty of not ever being used. So, after so long, I'm getting clear that the idea of changing is not bad after all. Yet, changing is something we should try to achieve everyday and of course, it should be a good change. :)

Today, presence. The day we wake up to. And it is different to every person. To us, Malaysians, a morning awake would be the time for work, for school or even another day of semester break ( as for me hehe ), but some people out there, thousand kilometres away from us, is struggling, is hiding under a shattered house, is throwing pebbles towards their enemy, is crying after another death of their family members and is living without a sign whether they would make it to home or not when they step out of their hidden spots. And yes, people out there is Palestinians. Syrians. Our brothers. Our sisters. Yes, of course, we couldn't do much but at least, lets try to help them by making a du'a for every sujood that we made, for every jemaah that we attended and for every prayer that we ameen-ed. Thats all. At least we try, we know we have no power and strength to travel all the way to the Palestine and Syria to fight back, to provide a pair of helping hands, but little did we know, "Du'a is the most powerful weapon of a believer." So, insyaAllah by making du'a, our brothers and sisters out there will be protected and blessed by The Most Merciful. And we, here in a safer place, lets make each day as productive as we can, make full use of it. Live our life to the fullest. Work as if we're gonna live thousands of years more, and do ibadah as if we're gonna die tomorrow. InsyaAllah, all is well. :)

And tomorrow is future. Something that we can aim about, we can dream of, yet unpredictable. Everyone has a future, but how our future would be depends on us, once again. We can aim high, but if we do not struggle for it, we never try to strive for it, all is nothing. Yes, but do remember, if we already try our hardest up to our limit, and we didn't get what we should ( or we think we should ), then, never get too upset or give up on it, because Allah sees our effort, not the result. And sometimes, Allah on hold what He wanted to give to us, because He has something better and has His own agendas. So never questioned any of Allah's act upon us. "And it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know." We are human, merely a human, know nothing, even we didn't know what's best for ourselves. So lets just try our hardest, struggle to make our day, our presence and our future as best as we could, and at the end of the day, lets Allah decide what's good for us. Shall we?

InsyaAllah. A reminder to myself too.

Oh, I already made a new resolutions for myself. Have you got yours? *winkwink*
Will post on my new resolutions soon. Heee :)

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Sand tickling off my feet

Just installed blogger apps on my phone ! And this is my first post via android.
Yesterday. Beach time with le girlz. Our usual hangout spot everytime I'm back in Kuantan.
Teluk Chempedak.
;)



Sunday, November 11, 2012

Of happy yet fear.

SEMESTER BREAK IS HERE !!!

Alhamdulillah, done with my super-hectic third semester ! Awesome ! Super excited and I really looking forward for such a loonggggggg break. But is it a good thing? Or a bad one? Well, I do happy, well more to ecstatic actually, to have this long break off from classes and college. Such a tiring and chaotic semester I've been through. Just like what I imagined after few of my seniors told me to be prepared mentally and physically for this third semester. All is within this short period of time ; IELTS, Parents-Lecturers Meeeting ( Uhuk uhukk ), loadzzzz of HACC's events, loadzzzzzzzz of topic tests and loadzzzzzzz of subjects to catch up. But one thing for sure, this semester is very memorable and unforgettable one. I feel loved and cared, all the time ! Especially during gathering at the surau, waiting for Maghrib and Isha' prayers. I don't feel awkward anymore nor feeling left out. It's like love is in the air, love is spreading out and transferred from heart to heart. The night's sharing were just too awesome and as noob as I am in Islam matters, I got lots of inputs and new things to discover about Islam. Awww, the feeling is just beyond amazing. 

Alhamdulillah for the feeling. 

Alhamdulillah for the love.



Yes ! A One billion question above here ! Yipeeeeee OR Arghhhhh ?! 


Yipeeee! because ;

  1. NO CLASS ! NO ASSIGNMENTS !
  2. I don't have to spend every day and night, in the study room, facing and revising A-level books. 
  3. I can sleep very late at the night, and wake up very late in the noon. Hohoho.
  4. I can watch movies happily without having to worry about undone assignments.
  5. I can play with my kitty kitten all day longgggggg.
  6. I can hangout with my homies and indulge myself to the beautiful feeling of sitting on the beach.

Arghhhhh ! because '
  1. How's my imaan would be?
  2. Too many distraction.
  3. How's my imaan would be?
  4. Too much free time, means too much time will be wasted.
  5. How's my imaan would be?
  6. Lazy ass and couch potato ALERT ! Hmmmm. 
  7. How's my imaan would be?
What a sad pathetic answer my nafs would gives.  *crying a jug*
However, I need to stay positive and always boost my spirit not only to maintain it but to increase my imaan at the same time. I must brace myself to overcome all the distractions and obstacles. Ewaaahhh. LOL. 

There's a few mutabaah 'amal that we already planned before semester break, and InsyaAllah I'll try to do it every single thing in the list. Well, there is no much thing to do actually but since I'm in the mood of a holidaaayyyyyyy, so even a couple of good deed would be hard to do, isn't it? InsyaAllah I'll try my best. I don't want to be among the unlucky ones who didn't take this golden opportunities and to have this so much free time should be spend wisely and to the fullest. 

Cause, WE LIVE TWICE ! 

We don't know when will our first life would be taken, might be few hours from now, might be tomorrow or might also be few years from now. Few years seem long enough, but actually, believe me, it's merely like a blink of an eye if we didn't start changing ourselves. Yes, Nadiahbs yes, reminder to you too !

Oh and I already listed out all the things that I'm planning to do during this semester break. Apart from studying,  I'm gonna learn how to cook and bake ! InsyaAllah. Hihi. Cause I wanna cook for my housemates next sem. :D And also some other things, secret stuff that couldn't been mentioned here Hoho.


P/S : Gonna have my first hangout session for this semester break, this Monday. Gonna have some breakfast and catch up a movie with my schoolmates. :)

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Keep calm and do more Ibadah.

Assalamualaikum.

IT'S FRIDAY FRIDAY, GOTTA GET DOWN ON FRIDAYYY !

OPSSSS. WAIT !
SCRATCH THAT !

IT'S RAMADHAN, PEOPLE ! :D


Alhamdulillah.

Selesai sudah Satu Ramadhan. More days to go. Tapi ingat, bukan berapa banyak hari lagi puasa yang perlu kita kira, tapi berapa banyak ibadah yang kita dah lakukan sepanjang bulan Ramadhan yang mulia ini.

Personally, I would say that this Ramadhan is like the first Ramadhan ever in my life which I feel like fasting as a real Muslim. Hmmm, mungkin kerana I started to practice Islam more and feel the deen itself compared to Ramadhan yang dulu yang mana I don't really appreciated 'em and it's just a 'shop till you drop' month as there would be loads and loads of sale and cheap clothes. I feel kinda embarrassed to ever recall back how I acted and how I was back then. Not that I am good enough, pious or whatever related to it right this very time, in fact I am now, still in the trial of becoming a better Muslimah and still got a long way to go. It's just that, this feelings, it just so different from the pasts and I know that I always need to push myself gradually in order to achieve my mission in making Islam as part of my routine, principle and way of life. Bak kata Ustaz Hasrizal time The Awakening Project di Cemara semester lepas,

"Orang yang berubah kerana paksa adalah mangsa. Tapi orang yang berjaya adalah mereka yang memaksa diri."


Bukan semua orang boleh jadi guru sekolah, pensyarah kolej, doktor perubatan, polis jenayah, hakim mahkamah, tapi yang pasti, semua orang boleh jadi Muslim dan Muslimah yang berjaya. Cuma semua itu bergantung pada ini ( point to the heart ). I always ask myself, apa yang saya mahu dalam hidup? Apa yang saya kejar sebenarnya? Dan apa yang saya perlukan sebenarnya? Sebenar benar benarnya, kita tak perlu persoalkan pun benda itu kerana sepatutnya memang ia perlu dah terserap dalam hati dan minda kita dan secara automatiknya akan terjawab tanpa perlu dipersoal. Namun semua perlu dimulakan dengan hati dan hati adalah penting dalam segala apa yang kita lakukan. Contoh terdekat, in every single thing that we wanna do, niat kita itu penting dan ia terletak pada hati. Jadi, hati ni basically more or less boleh menentukan buruk baik perlakuan kita, dan tak lupa juga dibantu dengan akal fikiran kita. Tapi, bila recalled balik Prof Tariq Ramadan saying in his last talk,

"Our heart is changing everyday. There's a difference between understanding through heart and mind. If you understand through mind, you'll become arrogance."

Arrogance yawww ! O Allah, mohon jauhkan lah kami dari sifat arrogance dan jadikanlah kami se-humble yang mungkin. So, memang betullah yang hati ini penting, so saya sedang mencuba sedaya upaya untuk memulihkan hati saya yang hitam dan rosak ini supaya jadi bersih dan suci seperti kalian di luar sana. Mesti hebat kan perasaan dapat jadi hebat macam korang yang hebat-hebat di luar sana tu? :D Uuuuuuu, mahu jadi super macam korang juga *wink* Susah, memang susah. Siapa kata senang, mudah dan licin untuk berubah 360 darjah sebegitu? Eh, tapi saya akan cuba. Mungkin mampu 200 darjah sahaja, ataupun takat 145 darjah, tapi at least saya mencuba kan? Allah tak lihat pada hebatnya pengakhiran kita semata-mata, namun pada efforts yang kita letak untuk menjadikan pengakhiran kita itu sesuatu yang manis dan hebat. Ewaahhh.

I really hope that this very special month of the year would give a thousands of benefits for me and you. Oppss, wait. Make it GAZZILIONS OF BENEFITS for all of us ! Because who knows that this might be our last Ramadhan ever in our life?


"Everyone is going to die. Life is limited." - Prof Tariq Ramadan

Jadi, apa tunggu lagi.
Brothers and sisters, JOM MARATHON KE SYURGA ! :)



P/S : First Ramadhan tahun ini di rumah Kuantan after three years :D

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

An early Raya Shopping !

Just received my very first purchase of ThePoplook ! Bought 3 dresses. The green one is my sis's and the other two are mine ! *winkwink*

IMMA HAPPY KID ! :D



Ladies ! Check out their website ! There are lotsa nice clothes to wear ! :)


Because we're awesome liddat.

Pernah dengar pasal geng Bangsawan?
My geng during two years in SESTER.

Eh sat sat.
Bangsawan bukan atas duit atau harta kami ya.

Bangsawan sebabbbb....


Well, though ada beberapa fakta yang terlari sikit dengan apa yang Syaza tulis ( Biasalah minah tu, long term memory lost. Amboii cakap orang, diri sendiri tak sedar. FINE -.- ), but still the main point is there. Sebab ramai yang salah sangka yang kitorang bajet letak nama Bangsawan sebab konon kaya HAHAH. This is so not true, people. -_____-

Oh and by clicking the given link, you will also know all the 13 Bangsawans ! :D
*Cehh bagai promote pulak*




Tuesday, June 12, 2012

You, my friend. I have something to tell you.


Ze SuperNadiahbs iz tired of pretending to be Superb.


I am tired. Tired of everything.
Every single word that left unsaid.
Every single thing that left undone.

Why?

Because I'm just too coward to face the possible outcomes. The outcomes that when I say something or give advises to people, they will start avoiding me. They will not gonna share anything with me again. They will feels discomfort around me and think that I'm such a tedious person. I don't want to have that feeling. All the outcomes that I couldn't bear to stand and witness and ever even experience it myself. But then I knew, that I really need to stand up and speak up what I've been longing to say for a long time.

But...

What if, the friendship bonds between us would not be the same again.
Tear up.
Tear apart.
Broken.

I'm tired of being a coward. I'm tired of being the girl who don't know how to get mad. I'm tired of blinding myself from all the wrong things that people did. I'm tired of not being able to say the right words and do the right things. I'm tired of not having the gut to tell someone their wrongdoings. I'm tired of pretending that I don't know what happens around when I exactly know the whole true stories and the details.

I'm tired of being me. A selfless girl. I'm just tired.

You know the feelings? When all the guilts and sadness surrounding us because we didn't do the right things at the right time? And all the "free" sins that we have to get just because we didn't tell and advise them when we can? And just let it slip away from our sight.

And to tell you the truth, the guilts will keep on haunting us and the sins will also keep on burdening our left shoulders with or without our consciousness.

Well, at least that's what I feel right now.

And for the gazillionth time, I'm TIRED of all these things up to the point where I'm tired of telling and even mentioning that I'm tired. Pffttt.

And I don't know how to overcome all these stupid feelings. T_T
So that I can untie this tongue of mine and spill every single things that I wanted to say. Not because I'm the type of person who simply loves bugging into people's life. But just because I care for all of you. I care for my friends that I always wanted the best for them. That's all :'(



Huh? Wait. Hold a second, buddy.
Yes. I'm not perfect. Not even close.
But who's perfect, anyway?


Teach me. Please. Teach how to do it.

Dan Kita BUKAN Mereka.



"There are not YOU."

Ya.
Sebab itu mereka begitu.
Boleh sekeh je kepala kita.
Boleh lenyek je badan kita.
Boleh tonyoh je muka kita.

Sebab mereka lain.
Kita ada agama.
Ada Tuhan.
Ada Quran.
Ada Adab.
Ada Santun.


Mereka ada apa?

P E L U R U ?

HAHAHA
Berapa lama sangat boleh hidup dengan itu?


#PrayForSyria
#PrayForPalestine
#PrayForMuslim

Eh? Hashtag kat sini pun boleh. Haha.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

SuperEntry by SuperSuhi.

Assalamulaikum,
Just read this entry from one of my friend's blog ( my deskmate back when I was in SESTER, Suhi Muhi ! ) and this entry hit me, big time.


People spend money to enter the Hellfire. Nowadays Paradise is cheap whereas the Hellfire is expensive. How much do you have to pay to go to the mosque? How much does the prayer cost? How much does abulation cost? How much does it cost to say La Ilaha Ilallah? Read a page from the Quran or read the entire Quran, how much do you pay for this? But if you go to the beach, the disco, the casino, all of this costs money. Fornication is expensive, Alcohol is expensive. These people are paying money to enter Hell whereas they can enter Paradise for free. And then they say: ”I believe in the Paradise and Hell.”, but where is their intellect? Where are these people going to? What’s happening to the people who say: ”I believe”, in what do they believe? If they know about and believe in Paradise and Hell then they should know how to get to Paradise. If you would die now, where would you go to? What will happen with you? There are people who have lived for a 1000 years in the midst of mountains and have dedicated their entire life to the worship of Allah. But we live only 50, 60 or 70 years so why can’t we persevere for this short period? Let’s all be patient in this world. Let’s save the fun, the luxuries and the enjoyment for the hereafter. All of us would like to have fun and enjoy, but we can’t leave our mosques, our prayer, our duties towards Allah. Don’t get me wrong, we can enjoy with our families, children and friends, Allah gives us permission to do so, but don’t go outside with non-mahrams to drink, fornicate, not pray and so on. When you go out for a picnic with your family you also have to pray, and say Subhanu’Allah when looking at the creation of Allah, this also falls under worship. Everything has its time and place, Allah does not forbid us to sleep, but He says to sleep, wake up, pray the night prayer, sleep, and then wake up for Fajr. But what are we doing? we watch movies until 2 in the night and then sleep until 11 in the morning. What happened to the prayers? Then you wake up and go directly to the breakfast table and immediately attack the food. Don’t you know this food is from Allah? You are eating without having prayed 2 rakah, Fajr is over, the sun is up, and you are eating your food ignorant of the Hellfire that is waiting for you. Please, do yourselves justice, do not immediately flee to the easy things, your desires and lusts, go to bed on time, pray Fajr, do Dhikr, and afterwards sleep until 11 a clock, nobody who is stopping you from doing so. Everything has its time.

#notetoself


Isn't that TRUE?
Let's reflect and ask our own selves, brothers and sisters...

"WHAT IS MORE JOYFUL AND AMAZING THAN A GREAT AND AWESOME LIFE IN THE HEREAFTER?"

:)

Saturday, May 19, 2012

Awesome than Superman?


Cause I have super new header, with super awesome picture, I declare myself SuperNadiahBS.

nuff said.

Saturday, April 14, 2012

Judgmentals Shmudgmentals.

Because peoples tend to be so JUDGEMENTAL and make arrogance as a stand of life.

Friday, April 6, 2012

Flash Mob Palestine at DBKL

Lame tak lame, tapi saya baru nak update about Flash Mob Palestine tiga minggu ( kot) yang lalu hewhew. Memang lah dah berzaman, tapi dah janji kan nak post entry about this thing.

As usual, PHOTOSSSSSS jelahhhh











But seriously, it was a very great moment and high-ed up my spirit to support and help the Palestinians ! :)

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

3 : 200

Tak post lagi entri pasal Flash Mob for Palestine last Sunday, bakal post nanti insyaAllah. :)

Dan sekarang tengah semangat-semangat untuk ini. Heeee ;)


Tapi semangat and harapan terluntur sikit apabila banyak ajakan kepada kawan-kawan ditolak. Sedih bila diajak dan ditolak. Rasa semangat berkurangan. Perlu ramai orang untuk bersama. :|

Tidak, Nadiahbs !
Kena semangat ! Semangat !

Jangan tensi, jangan sedih.
Hmmmm...

Bak kata Shima ;
" sye smgt sbb awk smgt ! haha kalau awk tak smgt, sye pn tk smgt laa."

Okay Shima ! Saya semangat ni semula !
:D

Monday, March 12, 2012

Hijabi Inside and Out

Assalamualaikum.

Okay, after on a long hiatus of non-photos-all-words entries, I feel delighted to post a factual-and-mind-thinking one today ! This post might be a very long one, if you are in a rush, close the tab now and find another time to read this entry because this is a very important reminder to all of us, especially to my own self whom always slip out of the right path of the true definition of Hijab. What I try to convey about my title on Hijabi Inside and Out is the definition of hijab as a whole and the real functions of Hijab itself.

Wait.

Just.
A friendly reminder before you guys start reading this entry :

I am not a pro in this kind of stuff, but my intention is just to express my opinions and feelings and now, I'm in the trial of becoming a better Muslimah. Alhamdulillah, Allah has touched my heart to start taking Islam as a serious matter and put Him on the top priority of my everyday life. Frankly speaking, I have lots of flaws ( LOADS ) and still in the learning process to expose myself more on Islam. As jahil as I am right now yet I'm trying to improve myself in order to become the woman with respect, intelligence and full of Iman. InsyaAllah. So, I really hope no one start being judgemental and judging me with what I am about to write, with my personal life and appearance. As I said earlier, I'm in the state of improving myself ( in covering aurah matters-for a start ) and please, bear in mind that I am not really a knowledgeable person in this kind of aspects. Thank you. :)

Okay.

Some people might said that wearing a Hijab is just a piece of cloth covering our heads, our hair, our necks from being seen to those non-mahrams. Well, the fact is IT IS NOT.

HIJAB IS NOT JUST A PIECE OF CLOTH.
NOT JUST TO COVER UP OUR HEADS, OUR HAIR, OUR NECK.

IT SYMBOLIZES MUSLIM WOMEN.
WOMEN WHO RESPECT ALLAH AS THEIR ONLY GOD.
WOMEN WHO FOLLOW THE QURAN SAYINGS.
WOMEN WHO LIVE LIFE IN ISLAMIC WAYS.
WOMEN WHO NOT AFRAID TO SHOW THEIR FAITH.

And don't each of you guys want to feel the feelings of being blessed and protected by donning the Hijab?

Basically, hijab is a piece of cloth that we used to cover up our aurah ( the upper parts - in which mainly, hair ). But the real definition of hijab is covering up our aurah and control our manners in the sense of acting like a real Muslim. Most of the people in this era, misunderstood on the purposes of wearing the hijab. There's always be a misconception on what the real functions of women wearing the hijabs. Me, myself also always be in this situation where there are just something that are not clearly defined or exposed and I ended up wearing the hijab ( as only a cloth to cover my hair ) instead of the REAL HIJAB as what have be written in the Quran and Hadith. But then, I started to realize the important of the 'piece of cloth' that I always don on my head and it was like giving me a big fat slap and a wake up call.

"Do I wear the hijab just to cover my hair? my neck?"
"Or do I wear the hijab just to pleased my parents in order to become an obedient child?"
"Or do I wear the hijab because all of my friends wear one?"
"Or do I wear the hijab because it is the in-trend now?"

Those questions sometimes do popped out in my mind, and I'm pretty sure that some people out there also have had the same questions keep on popping in their minds but without any answer.

Well.
We wear the hijabs because Allah has told us to do so.
We wear the hijabs because it is crucial to cover up our Aurah.
We wear the hijabs because we wanted to be listed as one of the residents of Jannah.

SIMPLE.
MAIN POINTS : BECAUSE OF ALLAH. FOR ALLAH, OUR CREATOR.

"Dan katakanlah kepada perempuan-perempuan yang beriman supaya menyekat pandangan mereka (daripada memandang yang haram), dan memelihara kehormatan mereka dan janganlah mereka memperlihatkan perhiasan tubuh mereka kecuali yang zahir daripadanya dan hendaklah mereka menutup belahan leher bajunya dengan tudung kepala mereka dan janganlah mereka memperlihatkan perhiasan tubuh mereka melainkan kepada suami mereka, atau bapa mereka, atau bapa mentua mereka, atau anak-anak mereka, atau anak tiri mereka, atau saudara-saudara mereka, atau anak bagi saudara-saudara mereka yang lelaki, atau anak bagi saudara-saudara mereka yang perempuan, atau perempuan-perempuan Islam, atau hamba-hamba mereka, atau orang gaji dari orang-orang lelaki yang telah tua dan tidak berkeinginan kepada perempuan, atau kanak-kanak yang belum mengerti lagi tentang aurat perempuan dan janganlah mereka menghentakkan kaki untuk diketahui orang akan apa yang tersembunyi dari perhiasan mereka dan bertaubatlah kamu sekalian kepada Allah, wahai orang-orang yang beriman, supaya kamu berjaya."

Surah An-Nur ; 31


”Wahai Nabi! Katakanlah kepada isteri-isterimu, anak-anak perempuanmu dan isteri-isteri orang mukmin, ”Hendaklah mereka menutupkan jilbabnya ke seluruh tubuh mereka.” Yang demikian itu agar mereka lebih mudah untuk dikenali, sehingga mereka tidak di ganggu.”
Surah Al-Ahzab ; 59


Hijabis should portray the good manners as a Muslim. Islam teaches us to act good in every single thing that we do. Be it in the public, or even when we're alone. That's what makes the one wearing the hijabs, hijabis.

'People who wears the hijabs, but with zero attitude shouldn't be called as Hijabis.'

It is quite offensive to burst that statement out like that. Well, truth is TRUTH. No one can deny it. It just the matter of letting the hearts and minds to accept the real truth that people always try to avoid.

I had once read this one blog of a non-hijabi Muslim girl who condemned and said bad things about those 'Hijabis'. Well, what she was trying to say and convey are true and factual. She uploaded some photos of people wearing the hijab in the wrong way as in exposing the chests and butts, and wearing tight and see-through clothes. She tried to say that although she didn't wear the hijab ( yet ), she still know the rules and obligations of covering up the Aurah. But the way she wrote to describe those girls are just too rude and very offensive. She used the harsh words and in the end, no one gets any benefits. Neither her or those girls she wrote about. She do has some points to make, but the way of giving out her opinions is just so wrong. She knows, she should wear the hijab but she didn't ( I don't know why ). And she tried to somehow preach ( kinda ) the Hijabis who wear inappropriately but instead she gave like public humiliations to that persons although she did edit the photos so that the faces wouldn't be exposed ( Well, only the eyes that were covered actually - not really helping though ).

In the end,
Who wins? No one.
Who gets the benefits? No one.

There's always a way to preach people towards becoming a better Muslimah. Not with anger. And obviously, not with harsh words and humiliations. Sarcasms can sometimes be offensive though it really helps in preaching other Muslims because there are like "serious jokes" that often makes people reflect and look back through themselves. It's like indirectly giving advises to people.

Say.
Tell.
Preach.
Advise.
IN A PROPER WAY.

That's the best thing to do as people will not feel burden and being forced to do the good deeds.

In this way, more and more people will start to wear the hijabs and to those who already wear them, will start covering it appropriately. :)

And, now.
Who wins?
Who gets the benefits?

All individuals !
Both advisers/preachers and Hijabis !

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ON A SECOND THOUGHT....


Wear a Hijab, and you cannot be fashionable?

Huh?
Who said so?

I, myself love fashions. But wearing a hijab doesn't restrict me from being fashionable. I admit that most of my clothes are quite tight and exposed some parts that should been covered, but as I told earlier, I'm in the trial of becoming a better muslimah. So, I will gradually taking a step further away from all those tight clothes, to a more loose ones. :) *But I'm practically broke now, need some money to buy new appropriate clothes hihi*

Here's some photos I took from the internet. ( Celebrities and bloggers )












SubhannAllah, look how beautiful they are all dressing-up up to the fashion trends but still covering their aurah. Thumbs up ! :)

There is no wrong in being beautiful because Allah himself loves beauty. It is just the way we're making ourselves look beautiful is sometimes wrong. And as for that, always remember to PUT ISLAM BEFORE FASHION. We as women surely want to feel and look pretty but one thing for sure, don't be over the limits. Be fashionable, but with appropriate clothes on ;)

Oh and for the shawls, tudung, headscarves or any cloth that cover your upper part, make sure you wear them in a right way.

For the hands and arms ;

For the chests ;


And for the butts ;


Yes, be up-to-date, in trends and stuff ( it's not wrong ), but the fact is MODESTY is always the best choice. Being and promoting modesty is what Islam keep on teaching and nurturing us with.

Just be fashionable, but make it looks modest and just-nice.
And yes, I'm working on it too. :)

Thanks for reading the whole lengthy of entry. Hopefully, both me and you will start taking serious on this matter. May Allah leads us to the right path and bless us throughout our journey, InsyaAllah.

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Once again.
I ain't good, I just care.
:)

P/S : Maaf kalau ada tersalah kata, tersentuh perasaan atau tersalah fakta, sesungguhnya saya masih mentah dan baru belajar. Maaf sekali lagi.



"Kita adalah kaum yg dimuliakan Allah hanya dgn ISLAM. Apabila kita mencari selain dari Islam sebagai cara hidup, bersedialah menghadapi kehinaan daripada Allah."

-Saidina Umar Al-Khattab



Sunday, January 29, 2012

NadiahBS in other version

Hari ni laptop saya rosak. Tapi sekarang dah okay! Thanks to all my beloved pghen who were there to help me when I was crying bcause of this stupid laptop! Urgh.

Maaf, ini bukan coretan NadiahBS. Thanks :)

Monday, January 23, 2012

19-year-old blogger.

Assalamualaikum.
Hi there.

Woah, my last post was on January 4th. Means, more than two weeks since I last updated my blog. Yes, that was a solid proof that I've been REALLY BUSY these days. two weeks without proper sleeping pattern and a nice rest. Alhamdulillah, I got a week of Chinese New Year holidays. at least I can qodha all my sleeps and have a real good long rest. Well actually I still have loadssss of works to do though it's holiday. Some work on HACC thingy and non-stop assignments that keep on bugging me. anyways, that's what I have to pay for being an A-level student isn't it? So, there's no need for me to keep on complaining about that. Okay, stop ranting.

Well, being me who is already friggin' busy but still couldnt stop letting other things to come in my way, I signed up for tutoring the Koreans ! yes, I may sounds surprisingly excited to you guys about this because as you all know, I am never a fan of K-pop. But, well they are not Korean artists and stuff, so yeah, I'm excited for that haha. actually, I wasnt planning on signing up for this thing but Najwa and Syaz kept on asking, and yeah thanks to them. I really enjoy getting along and mingle with Hyung Min. Oh yes, Cho Hyung Min is the name of our new friend :) He's 25 by Korean age, and 24 if counted by year. sounds confusing? okay. he was born on 1988, but he said that in Korea, a freshly born baby ( haha sounds weird ) is counted as 1 year old instead of 1 day old like how Malaysians counted. So that means, I am 20 if I follow Koreans counting !


And that's Hyung Min ! He's tall and an athlete too ! He run marathon for 10km only within 56 minutes. how surprisingly fast ! Dasyat ! We were literally jaw-dropped when he told us about that.

Oh, we supposed to tutor him English, well not really tutoring, ( tutor sounds so formal ) we just mingle and chat in English. He had quite a hard time to talk in English with us because he knows simple words only. He was so cute when he making faces if he didnt know the words that he wanted to say in English. We used hand-gestures a lot ! I really had so much fun hanging out with him. We're going to bring him to Kuala Lumpur soon to show him some places and hang out together before he fly back to Korea on 5th February. Cant wait ! :) ( Yes I am excited to the max haha )

Okay, enough with that.
Let's proceed to other topic.

OH !
the reason why I was soooooooooo busy, and actually still am, is because of HACC. yes, Hiking and Camping club which I joined since 1st semester but only now I felt the busyness as I am one of the Hicom now ( Even those non-hicom are busy too. Two big events coming soon ). We were having meeting almost everyday and I'm tired of it. Well, actually all of us were tired of it. but what can we do, there's so many things to do in so little time. Starting from the Interview for New Members ( 2 days ), Pra-Orientation for New Members, our underground activities to Broga Hill and Sg Tekala and which we then went to KL for some hiking shopping, and soon.... Orientation at Bukit Kutu and Annual Grand Dinner (AGD). Oh and the theme for AGD is International Culture. I already have something on my mind on what to wear that night, heee :) just wait and see. *winkwink*

For the picture of all HACC's activities for the last two weeks, I'll post 'em in another entry. :)

Oh one more thing, about my 19th birthday ! I'll talked about it later. Still havent got photos from my friends yet. once I have those pictures, I'll straightly update on that ! :D

Turrah !